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Coming soon 

un-masked 

Whether you’re seeking self-awareness, healing, deeper relationships, or a more embodied

connection to pleasure, this book will guide you there. No fluff, no judgment—just a powerful, unfiltered journey inward.

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jay bain

Shadow Coaching and

Emotional Regulation 


Welcome

The quality of our lives is rooted in the quality of our relationships —
with ourselves, with others, and with the world around us.

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This work is an invitation to deepen self-awareness, to honor truth, and to design relationships that reflect the life you are truly here to live.

Welcome. The journey begins within.

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WHO AM I?
(A worthwhile question)

I support individuals and couples in building true self-awareness, emotional steadiness, and deeper, more conscious relationships — beginning with the one they have with themselves.

This work isn’t about fixing behavior. It’s about uncovering the deeper needs, fears, and values that drive it and helping you move from old survival patterns into choices that are actually yours.

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We explore the places where connection gets stuck, where trust feels fragile, where shame or fear still write the story —
and together, we build the inner foundation needed to live, love, and relate with more truth, freedom, and care.

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If you're ready to begin, I'll meet you there.

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Blue Soft Book Cover Mockup Pinterest Pin (1).png

Coming soon 

unmasked 

Whether you’re seeking self-awareness, healing, deeper relationships, or a more embodied

connection to pleasure, this book will guide you there. No fluff, no judgment—just a powerful, unfiltered journey inward.

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A Quiet Rebellion

 

 

 

Real connection doesn’t start with someone else. It starts with how you meet yourself.

When you build true self-awareness — the kind that doesn’t just track behaviour, but understands the deeper needs, fears, and values underneath —you create the conditions for intimacy to grow naturally, with yourself and with others.

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This work supports individuals and couples who are ready to move beyond old patterns of survival and beyond the cultural conditioning that teaches you to betray yourself for belonging. We live in a world that profits from disconnection —
from obedience over authenticity, performance over truth. Choosing to reconnect to your own values, your own desires, your own way of living —is not just healing.It’s a quiet rebellion.

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Whether you are deepening your relationship with yourself, rebuilding trust with a partner, or learning how to create emotional safety in connection the foundation is the same:truth, presence, and a willingness to meet what’s real.

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Through shadow exploration, emotional regulation, breathwork, and relational work, we uncover and transform the unconscious patterns — internal and external — that keep connection, clarity, and intimacy out of reach.

 

This isn’t about striving for perfection. It’s about designing relationships — within and without — that are strong enough to hold real life:the beauty, the discomfort, the change. The work is not about becoming better.It’s about becoming more true and reclaiming the right to live by your own terms.

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If you're ready to build relationships — with yourself and with others — that are rooted in truth, resilience, and care,
this is where we begin.

breathe.

One to One Coaching 

Individual coaching helps you rebuild the relationship you have with yourself.
We explore the patterns, fears, and stories that have shaped your life — and create space for real self-awareness, emotional steadiness, and choice.


This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about living from what’s true, not what’s inherited — and building a life that reflects it.

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Couples Coaching 

Couples coaching is about creating real safety, healthy communication, and deeper intimacy.


We uncover attachment patterns that block connection, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional and sexual intimacy.


Together, we learn how to move through conflict without losing connection — and access the freedom, pleasure, and growth that conscious relationships make possible.

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BREATHWORK & REGULATION

Breathwork and regulation practices reconnect you to the intelligence of your own body.


We build tools for self-care that are tailored to your needs — supporting emotional steadiness, clearer decision-making, and deeper resilience.
This work helps free you from old survival patterns, so you can move through life with more choice, presence, and trust in yourself.

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all yours 

SELF CARE TOOLKIT

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you are the designer

You are not here to perform for love.


You are here to build relationships — with yourself, with others — that reflect who you truly are.

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This work is about reclaiming the parts of you that were hidden, reshaping connection on your own terms, and living by values you choose — not ones handed to you.

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You are the designer of your life.
And the first step is remembering you always were.

Integrate your Shadow.
Embrace the fullness of who you are. 

Shadow integration is the process of bringing into awareness the parts of yourself you were taught to hide — the fears, desires, emotions, and needs that didn’t feel safe to express.

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When these parts stay unconscious, they shape your choices, relationships, and self-worth from the background, often in ways that feel stuck or confusing.

By meeting your shadow with curiosity instead of judgment, you unlock access to your real strength, creativity, emotional freedom, and deeper trust in yourself.

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Shadow work isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about reclaiming the whole of who you are — and living with more truth, connection, and choice.

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